Jesus did not mean for his children to be narcissists. He meant for us to love others as you are kind to yourself. In other words, treat others as you would want to be treated. We know as believers we are loved by God. This love does not interpret itself to become a self-doting, self-admiring, self-consumed, rude, demeaning, manipulative and abusive person where the world revolves around your wants, needs and demands. This is not what God meant. There is only one King and that is Jesus Christ.
How many little queens and kings are running around treating people like they are personal slaves? The more abuse they dish out, the more gratified their bellies are because it so pleases them. I say it is demonic regardless if a person presents themselves to be a Christian.
These evil people are proud to be evil and think it is funny to watch believers squirm and become manipulated. They will have their day in the eternal lake of fire unless they repent.
When you have the gift of discernment you can see right through their dark souls. They think cleverness surpasses God's wisdom; they are only digging their own pit to fall in it.
Mark 12:30-31 (KJV)
30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
I believe the lack of conscience has become so prevalent in our society that it has become grossly self absorbed. Can a person still be a nice and kind person without a conscience...yes, but the soul is dead as night. I've even witnessed Luciferians to be nice on the outside, but you can't be a cleansed soul of sin without the blood of Jesus Christ and receiving His payment for your sins.
So no matter who a person claims to be, they must be born again. The soul will become full of God's Holy Spirit once you believe.
Jesus said you will know them by their fruits. When you first discern, a person can be very deceived by believing the "Christians" proclamation of being saved. I've heard luciferian preachers who can out teach most preachers. Hard to believe until you realize all the masonic and luciferian hand signs.
Yes, the word says that satan comes as an angel of light, so no surprise when these imposter's are presenting themselves as such. I pray believers wake up to their schemes so they do not follow after wolves anymore.
The problem lies with wanting to follow men rather than God's Holy Spirit who teachings us all things. Why is there such a fan base with groupies for preachers who call themselves pastor. God's word says to not call anyone teacher or Rabbi and yet the pastors all give themselves a title which in fact is a gift from God's Holy Spirit, not a title.
Why do the people of God strive to be in the inner circle of leadership and compete for the stamp of approval from a pastor and his followers? It is scrambling and vying for affirmation and acceptance. Jesus makes us righteous in His sight, not a pastor or his fan base.
Getting back to the narcissist, a tell tale sign is when someone continues to do what they do regardless if you let them know it hurts you. This repetitive cycle of abuse is clearly a sign they don't care about you and would rather destroy you instead.
When a believer has a conscience that has not been seared, usually they feel remorse and experience the grieving of God's Holy Spirit within. At this time if they have wronged someone, it doesn't take long for God's Holy Spirit to work to convict them and there is an apology and repentance of that wrong.
If there is a stagnant delay that lasts for days and there is no change in their behavior, if it continues to manifest perpetually in abuse, then you know their conscience is seared and are in total rebellion against God.
Why would a narcissist listen to any words of wisdom if they have turned their backs on God. They instead are elated that your emotions have stirred into hurt and pain. This is the gratification that is their ultimate end goal. Much like satan himself who sends forth demons for destruction. It is a correlation that is too uncanny to dismiss.